Love. Don’t love. Love. Don’t love. Sometimes it is hard to decide. We both want and don’t want to. As if there was a whole gang of “selfs” in there, each wanting something different, many different selfs that cannot decide who should decide. Who decides? Isn’t it me? We can see the self as a conductor who has to coordinate all the instruments in the orchestra and the instruments are different parts of our personality. Feelings awaken thoughts, thoughts can awaken feelings. Feelings and thoughts work in a team. Positive thoughts and feelings like to bond together – as do sad thoughts and feelings.